You deserve better !!

"But you actually don't deserve this, you deserve better "....
Too often we hear this statement from our close ones.....we get impressed by the way they see us and the way they think that we actually deserve all the best....but then comes the reality to prove the complete opposite. ....the fact that there is always this gap between what people claim we actually deserve and what we come to face in real life.....the problem is that those people who always claim that we deserve better are most probably the same ones who give us less than what they claimed we actually deserve !!

The problem that lies in every time they admit it that they aren't giving u that much....that they aren't caring as u care....or that you always give them  more....the problem that leads u to the same question so if u claim I deserve better....and if u admit that you're giving me less than what I actually deserve. ...so why are you doing this ?!! 
Maybe because we as humans always tend to find a way out of every argument....maybe because of the reasons we always have behind every mistake we make.....our inner resistance that always tends to  refuse the fact that we actually did soemthing wrong....our ego that makes us forget sometimes that those people who are blaming us now for not caring for them....are actually the same people we made them believe that they actually deserve more and that we'd never make them go through what they went through before !!

This ego is actually more dangerous than we think.....it  can sometimes distroy bonds that people have been  trying to build for years.....this ego that always makes "defending ourselves" pretty more important than trying to understand where the problem really lies.....
so just stop letting your ego lead your words in any conflict. ....believe me you'll regret it when u start to feel that the bonds you have been trying to build for years....started to be  broken because of moments of denial !!